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Enjoy each moment

Oh yes ...perhaps you think why do I write about the childhood ?? Because there is a root of our life . If you put the seeds of wheat in the farm and waiting for the crop of rice then it will be your timeless ,worthless expectations .
With birth of a small child its not a child's development period but its also its whole family's development time .We all are a student for the life time .We learn the things to make learn our child . A young man is converted into father and a young woman  into mother .The role is changed and slowly and gradually responsibility is changed .
Its fashion now a days to read the things all about the growing up of child since a woman conceives it .Both husband and wife start reading books ,search on the net ,consults so many doctors ,sometimes in all these activity they forget to live their natural life and spontaneous joy . A pregnant woman is allowed to live like her doctor's advice .A freedom is not there to do what she enjoys actually . If she wants to go to small hill and watch sunrise ,there may be fear of some obstacles to fulfill her wish .So from the time a small angel within he/she  is starting to compromise with the life from inside .Its fact that learning process started from within.
That is a natural instinct to enjoy the nine months with heart full joy .But we have forgotten to do it .Just think that animals also have their kids and so birds .Even the countryside people who are not educated they are also having child but how naturally they are going with it !!!! They are just following the rule of nature and nature a form of God take ultimate care of them .All goes so easily nah !!! Sometimes a Fear that something should not go wrong with us will frustrate us so badly that a good going thing is exploiting badly by us .And for bad result we people solely responsible ...
A life is natural phenomena ..so react naturally and enjoy each moment of it without any stress is beginning of stress less life ...

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