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A journey within ........

A journey within ........
Yes our journey within ourselves  ..Before knowing the world we should know ourselves first ...Now I put myself instead of our ....
How I relate the world with my self ??? Question looks simple but not simple so far .. I interpret each and every thing outside according to my understanding  .. Understanding can be achieved by imitate some one i.e. parents ,friends ,schoolmates ,teachers etc . I arrive at any conclusion either by discuss the thing with others whom I trust or it may my own .
For example : Mobile is ringing and I see the name of mr .X . I want to avoid talking with him  .I have option not to pick the phone  or something tell that indicates that I am not able to talk with him just now .I observed the things in the past in my home or surroundings  and when I find myself in same condition I follow any of them  . But my consious says that it may possible that the person is having real trouble or you should atleast hear him  calmfully it may be survival of him for the life time  ... I just pick the phone , hear him thoroughly , discuss the necessary things and he thanks me for the same  . Next day when I meet him he hug me and tell the bigger chellange is not to commit suicide but to live alive  ..Life is precious ...!!!
That is inside me  ... That is the outcome of journey within .....
Just not arrive to conclusion by one way thought process but understand the situation as a whole . This can not be taught in the schools or universities but it can be learnt by our own thinking patterns  ...
If you tell lie  once then you have to remember it for life time ..but if you tell even bitter truth once you have no botheration for the life time to remember ....
ITS A BEGINING OF THE JOURNEY  TILL NEXT STATION .....

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