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Its all about the life : Why stress ???


1.      Why stress ???
 Our life is so busy these days  …. You know this very well  ..  but I exactly want to tell you that what is the stress ?? That is a gap between our expectations and results  .. Sometimes the direction of our result may totally in opposite direction from our expectations  … Everybody wants to win not to lose  . Every body wants fruits immediately after making their efforts whether they may prove wrong or right  .
Patience is absent in our life  . This is one of the reason for our stress .
Our dependency only on our educational institutions or tution classes or coaches or mentors  ..We forget at the same time that they are also human being  … We also forget that each and every human is differing from others in all respects and so the results will be with same efforts they made  . A good healthy child will born only after 9 months preganancy   .. So we have to wait of 9 months atleast in general circumstances .. Just like that we have to allow gap between making efforts and their results ..
Are we influenced by others while making our goal in our life ??
This is very important issue now a days  . We just decide our goal according to what the trend is prevailing in current situation  . And the main factor is considered that what will be financial gains out of it ??? We forget to consider our capacity and many more factors …
Friends these  is the topic on which I will like to share my observations and thoughts but next time  ..Till that time wait …


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